How Do I know that He's Cheating?

Your significant other is cheating or capable of cheating if he is guilty of one or more than one of five scenarios below.

1>One
If he’s in the bathroom and his phone rings and he almost breaks the sliding/bathroom door to run outside to get it. This doesn't suggest that he's a cheater but it does pose a very interesting question: “Why just not ask you to get it for him?” Wouldn’t that be much easier than wetting the house and possibly damaging the phone with his wet hands?

2>Two
If he has a very close female friend that he has never introduced you to or invited you out with. The idea of men and women being close friends is already a difficult one to grasp and execute yet alone manage with a girlfriend or wife involved. And if the girl is indeed a friend who will be spending some alone time with your spouse, then she ought to be introduced to you as a means of accountability and transparency. The significant other is also the priority in any such relationship and no man should choose to go out with a female friend without inviting his spouse along or the spouse giving her approval if indeed she chooses not to go.

3>Three
If he is generally very secretive about his passwords for his phone, social networks, emails etc. Passwords are necessary to prevent snoopers in general from trying to mind your business but transparency is even more necessary when it comes to relationships because it builds TRUST and without trust, a relationship cannot survive. This doesn’t mean that he shouldn’t have a password or lock, it just means that he shouldn’t be trying to keep or hide it from you. Leaving your phone in your girl’s possession says that “I am comfortable with you seeing any message that comes through on there, I don’t have anything to hide and I don’t mind if you answer my phone because there is no one else. “ This one also applies to girls as well.

4>Four
If he never wants to go out with you in public. Men tend to show their love by protection, provision and profession and for this point we will be focusing on the profession aspect of it. A man in love, will want to climb the roof top and profess it to the world. The Bible says that the woman is the glory of man (Cor 11:7) and an excellent wife is the crown of her husband (Prov 12:4) He won’t hide her from facebook, his friends or his family as long as he loves her. That’s why it is said that if a guy brings a girl home to his mom then you know it’s serious. So if he isn’t trying to be seen with you, then perhaps you’re not that important.

5>Five
If he flirts around with every pretty woman he meets in your absence. A man will always be attracted to other women…deal with it. But the way he behaves with them will determine what kind of man he is. And though men who flirt a lot are not necessarily cheaters, flirting with an attractive woman is a dangerous cage that he can get trapped in especially if that girl decides to flirt right back. A good man notices but stays far away from trouble or anything that might get him in trouble. How does he behave in your absence with the opposite sex? Are his actions questionable? Is he a big flirt? Ask your (female)friends. They may be able to tell you.